Dandee is a Musician, Business Owner, Scooterist.

I like to think I am good at talking to strangers and fitting in most situations.  The problem that I find is that I often leave situations with little or no knowledge about the people I met.  This is a problem.  My other friends can remember the color of a persons shirt, the jokes they told and the drinks they ordered.  For some reason, I lose the details but I remember the over all feeling of the event.  Same thing with movies.  It takes many many viewing for me to remember dialog.  But if you quoted I would remember hearing it, in some movie.

Whats my point?  Well like almost everything I do, I don’t really have one.  But I do know that I am going to try to change this.  I want to make friends, real connections.  I want to be able to say hello when I see you and remember why I know you.  Ask how your new scooter is running, or if you got that new job you applied for.

I know what you are thinking…”Dandee, maybe its because you meet so many people when you are at a bar with loud music playing?  Maybe you had one too many tall vodka club sodas (with lemon) to remember?”  A legit question, but that’s not it, I will figure it out.

Oh yeah…my point.  If next time I see you I start asking questions like it was the first time we met, just play along.  Its ok.